Merciful, Nonjudgmental, & Kind

This pretty much sums up what I think:

Love Elder Holland. I feel like he gets it. 

We do not know where someone is on their journey and what has or is afflicting them. Most important thing I have learned is to assume the best with people and to love them in whatever way, shape, or form they are currently in. You never know when you are needed. If we are so worried about the path someone else is taking and trying to assume we know a better one for them instead of just loving them we may miss the opportunity to be of aide when they need us the most.